How Character Type gets baked. Most interesting part of this is Clancey realizing that there is nothing wrong with being a three & Maria talking about fear of raising a 1. I also like the idea that character type isn’t brokenness. Maria is a monster because her child might be a one.
Examples of being “upside down,” Character Type-wise, using Jesse / Clancey / Karon / Linda / Maria. Linda is a monster because she’s upside down all the time.
as examples.
Talking about Regression and expressing needs. Jesse regresses when Steve asks him questions (Linda says in the background jokingly, maybe I should go back to school). Jesse is a monster because Jess can be an “adult” and say her needs and he can’t.
A conversation about being Me-first vs You-first. Clancey struggled a lot knowing that she is a Three because she didn’t want to be “selfish”. Maria also talks a little bit about Jean trying to give to her and her being unable to take it. Clancey is a monster because she is Me first. Maria is a monster because she can’t meet her needs.
Linda struggles to understand Character Type and blames herself for it. Linda is a monster because she panics when trying to understand something and can’t.
Clancey talking about the ones in her life. Clancey is a monster because she struggles with Ones.
Steve talking about the intensity of the retreat, including the amount of scheduled groups.