2023 May EU – Seeing vs Being Seen, Urges vs Behavior (retreat topics)

In this group, we made major discoveries regarding the nature of urges, in particular how the urges which personality filters out are the things we do not want to give or get.

What has changed in you since the 2023 Retreat. The four ages of regression.

To know something, you need to be picturing it. Otherwise, you’re just guessing.

Emergence University Seminar | The 4 Kinds of Groups – Being Your Own Person (2024-01 January)

Connection vs Neediness. Constellated Science (discover questions) vs Traditional Science (find answers). Answers = Understanding. You cannot learn when you are needy. This neediness is Trying to Understand. To learn, you must have all four kinds of Information. Connection is “The Simultaneous experience of all 4 kinds of Information being exchanged between two people. To blame, you cannot be picturing. If you are picturing, you cannot blame.

In this seminar, we explore a new topic: Wound Prioritizing. This refers to the wound which creates the default state of a person’s personality in the 3 – 5 seconds just before a startle. This is caused by a wound which occurs between age 3 and age 5, most times, between age 3 1/2 and age 4 1/2. This state then generalizes to any time a person relives any wound, for the rest of the person’s life.

The takeaways here? There are quite a lot. Here are but a few.
[1] Inferences are the source of 95% of all human suffering. Maybe more.
[2] All inferences are attempts to “predict the future and in doing so, avoid future suffering.
[3] This makes seeing Inferences rather easy. Just notice when you are trying to predict the future. All inferences—even those which accurately draw on the past—are attempts to predict the future.
[4] The most egregious inferences? Hypotheses. All hypotheses are attempts to predict the future. This is true even when these predictions are done by the most talented and well-intentioned scientists.
[5] Indeed, based on this idea alone, we can say the revers is true as well—that all inferences are hypotheses. No surprise that scientists so rarely make breakthroughs. And yes, when they do, they benefit us greatly. But think of how much this success rate would increase were scientists to limit what they work with to Genuine Evidence.

Introduces the concept of Baby Inferences and the way in which babies learn without a timeline

Question: Where do inferences come from?

1. Behavior begins to exist at the edge of gender identity. It is the transition point between an urge and beginning to do/act in the world. Gender identity begins to translate into behavior.
2. There are four kinds of inferences that come from Socialization. Inferences are there before we behave. Inferences drive behavior, and the four types of groups (cult, family, loose, individuals) socialize us, and this then drives our inferences.
3. Each of the four groups has rules that collectively then form our socialization.
4. Inference is your mind’s sense of ‘is this, or is this not, the right thing to do.’ Group identity➡️ Socialization ➡️ Inferences ➡️ Person’s behavior.

(for more, see accompanying Group Notes pdf)

In this, the second seminar on socialization, we explore several personal categories of socialization, beginning with “majority” vs “minority” socialization.

In this gfroup, we explore how being socialized has affected our decisions, behaviors, parenting, and relationships in general.

In the first half of this group, we explore the idea that beneath all suffering lies the experience of boredom (emptiness), and that avoiding this painful state of mind results in everything from additions and compulsions to overeating and mindless occupations.

In this month’s group, we explore what can we be certain of in what’s being taught in our University (Fractal Certainty), claiming our own “authority,” and what it’s like to have no pre-learning on a topic.

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