2018 Retreat | Group 05 (Day 3) – Imitating Me First & You First – part 05: Sam & Clancey Having Kids

**Meaningful section of this group - this will be likely be central to Sam/Clancey in the documentary** Sam and Clancey about wanting kids. When Sam and Clancey first sit, Linda says, 'they look like they are in love.' And Sam laughs about the regression, repeating "I am an adult". Steve asks "Can I push this pretty hard?" Clancey hesitates and Sam immediately meets the need and says yes. Sam breaks down when he realizes that he doesn't want kids because he feels like he'll never see his needs. Maria connects with this fear even though she really wants one. Steve makes a comment about how the world is Sam's kid and anyone could call him up -- Reminds me of Sam's interview where he talks about a friend who was suicidal and used to call him all he time, and he remembers the first time he decided not to pick up.